Explore the many counselling services I provide that could possibly help you.
Our sexuality is very sensitive but important part of our lives. When we are comfortable with our own sexuality, life seems to flow smoothly. However, when our sexuality is a source of conflict in out lives, life seems to be full of hurdles and obstacles.
Relationships with loved ones can provide immense joy and happiness. These relationships can also be a source of pain and confusion. Many relationships today lack clear communication between loved ones.
Parental counselling is whatever you as a parent need it to be. It often involves dealing with stress in a more effective manner, so that you are less likely to feel overwhelmed by everything going on.
Life can be traumatic at times, and often people do not understand the effect of trauma on one’s coping abilities. Society has a limited understanding of what trauma is, and often cannot understand why some people are traumatised by some events.
In addition to trauma and relationship counselling, I offer counselling for a variety of situations where an objective outsider is beneficial for overcoming certain situations.
Tools for Having "The Talks" is a 3 day workshop series for parents, sharing some important tools and information for having age appropriate conversations with your children about bodies, touching, safety and sex.
We all want our children to remain innocent for as long as possible. Being innocent and being ignorant are not the same thing. Without the opportunity for fact based conversations, ignorance increases our children's risks. These workshops help parents to distinguish between the two. We discuss ways to maintain our children's innocence, while opening up lines of communication between parents and children around these often silent topics.
Book your space at an upcoming series - or host your own - Where we discuss how to be more comfortable with talking about these things.
Hi, my name is Casey and I’m a Registered Counsellor. I specialise in sexuality, gender, relationships, parenting and trauma. I provide counselling for individuals and couples, as well as sexuality education workshops for parents and adults (How to incorporate sex toys into a relationship).
I have a Masters in Psychology (Research) Degrees where my thesis looked at how 2014 matriculates evaluated the sex education received in school. I have been reading up on, and studying human sexuality since 2010.
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What Are My Rates?
All sessions are paid up front, before the session begins.
The fee is R650 per 45-60 minute session when paying via cash or EFT. Card payments carry an additional convenience fee.
You may submit your invoice to Medical Aid for reimbursement, if there are benefits available on your plan.
Please note, I require a 24 hour notice period for cancellations. Medical Aids do not reimburse for missed appointments or late cancellations (within 24 hours of your appointment).
Tools for Having The Talks site has details for upcoming workshops and fees.
My fee as a guest speaker depends on the event and what kind of talk you would like me to provide. Let's chat about your event, and what you'd like me to cover in my talk.
Here you can find some of my thoughts and opinions in regards to some topics you might also find interesting.
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